I Lost 125 Pounds: The Part of My Story I Almost Didn’t Share

For a long time, I wasn’t sure if I wanted to write this post.

Not because I’m ashamed of my journey, but because I know weight loss can be a sensitive topic. Everyone has opinions about how it should be done, what counts as “earning it,” and what doesn’t.

But Rooted and Radiant was never meant to be about perfection. It was meant to be about honesty.

So here it is.

Over the past two years, I’ve lost 125 pounds.

Yes, a GLP-1 medication was part of my journey.

And no, it wasn’t magic.

What many people don’t see is that the medication didn’t clean out my pantry. It didn’t teach me how to make healthier choices. It didn’t help me understand why I reached for food when I was stressed, tired, bored, or emotional.

I had to do that work myself.

I had spent years trying different diets, starting over on Mondays, and promising myself that “this time would be different.” Sometimes I’d lose weight. Sometimes I’d gain it back. Most of the time, I carried around a lot of frustration and disappointment.

Then I made a decision.

Not to become skinny.

Not to fit into a certain size.

Not to impress anyone.

I decided to choose myself.

The medication helped quiet the constant food noise that had followed me for years. For the first time, I felt like I had enough space to make better decisions instead of feeling like I was constantly fighting my next craving.

But the real transformation happened in the habits.

I learned to pay attention to what I was eating.

I started choosing foods that fueled me instead of foods that left me feeling sluggish.

I became more aware of sugar and carbs and how much control it had over my choices.

I learned that consistency matters more than perfection.

And little by little, those small choices began adding up.

Today, I still believe there is no shortcut to building a healthy lifestyle.

No medication can create discipline for you.

No medication can choose your meals.

No medication can heal your relationship with food.

Those things take work.

What I hope people take away from my story isn’t that they should do exactly what I did.

What I hope they take away is this:

You don’t have to stay stuck.

Whether your first step is taking a walk, giving up sugary drinks, asking your doctor for help, starting a journal, or simply deciding you’re worth the effort-YOU CAN BEGIN.

Life truly began again for me in my 50s.

Not because I became a different person.

Because I finally believed I was worth taking care of.

If you’re struggling, don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s middle.

Just take the next step.

One choice.

One day.

One victory at a time.

And if nobody has told you lately-you are worth choosing too.

-Wendy

Rooted and Radiant

In future posts, I’ll share what I eat, how I handled cravings, what I learned about sugar and carbs, and the habits that helped me maintain my progress.

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